Journal Entry: August 16, 2026
Location: Turmus and Olni
Title: A Birthday Visit and an Unwelcome Threat
The morning began quietly at my new home in Turmus. I continued testing and arranging the furnishings, including the blue-glass lanterns, candles, mirror, bathtub, curtains, footstool, and bedroom furniture. Each adjustment makes the house feel a little more complete.
The lanterns near the entrance now cast a particularly pleasant glow. I also installed a doorbell, which soon received a proper test.
Shortly after eleven, Kael arrived and called, “Knock, knock.” He admired the house and remarked on its three levels. I told him how much I loved it and how pleased I was with the way everything had come together.
Kael then announced that it was his birthday. I had remembered and still had it marked on my calendar. I had been waiting an entire week for the opportunity to wish him a very happy sixty-sixth birthday.
During our conversation, Kael suggested that perhaps we should begin courting again. He said that it made sense because we had remained close through everything that had happened between us. I reminded him that he had not wanted to court when we were in Selnar, but he felt circumstances were different now and that resuming our courtship might be a good next step.
I told him that I would give it some thought. We have remained friends despite our difficulties, and we have shared many good times. As Kael observed, we generally manage to work matters out when he is reasonable.
Before leaving for his office, Kael looked at the banner and the dragon surrounding my seal. He called them amazing and told me that I was a talented crafter. He also said that the Educational Hall and my new home had made me important within the growing Turmus community. I could not help blushing a little. I have never thought of myself as particularly important. I merely try to build places where people can gather, learn, and feel welcome.
The doorbell amused both of us. Kael rang it several times while I watched the notification appear. At least I now know that visitors will be able to announce themselves.
Our conversation turned to the slave class we had attended yesterday. Kael believed that the instructor’s presentation might have been technically correct in places, but he questioned how applicable all of it was when interacting with real people in Second Life. I admitted that I was uncertain. In my experience, many slaves remain only a month or two before moving elsewhere, and too few are interested in developing an enduring story.
Kael said he dislikes manipulating people and would prefer that they make good choices willingly rather than requiring him to force every response. I agreed. Roleplay becomes far richer when each person actively contributes to the story.
I reminded him that I would not be holding classes during the coming week because of my real-life medical matters. I may continue writing lessons if I feel well enough. The prepared curriculum now extends into June of next year, which surprised him.
We also spoke about families and children. I told him that I had once imagined having a large family, but I still have not found the twins who disappeared after a nurse took them during the war, when I was gravely ill. Kael acknowledged that many people have left or changed characters over the years. Even so, that loss remains part of my story.
I asked whether he wanted children. Kael said that he would if I did, although we would also need time of our own as a couple.
We agreed that Turmus is becoming more active and increasingly feels like a community. Its regular gatherings and the willingness of people to interact have helped. Kael and I discussed the possibility of a game night. I enjoy Greedy and the card game Hand and Foot, which is somewhat like Canasta. Kael had played Greedy but not Hand and Foot. We thought there might already be suitable games near the landing.
I also told him that Ramius, the Head Merchant, had offered to sit down with me and explain the details of Turmus trade, including what the city imports and exports. Kael mentioned granite and timber as two important commodities.
At noon, Kael left to bathe, eat, and prepare for his office work and an upcoming trial. Before departing, he gave me a warm birthday hug.
Later, I joined Carola, Marcus Galbreus, and Karl Stevenson. Karl introduced himself as a merchant with interests in several lands. Carola asked how my classes were progressing and whether attendance was satisfactory. I was pleased to report that the Turmus classes have been drawing a good number of people. Attendance in Olni remains disappointing, but someone nearly always attends in Turmus.
I reminded everyone that there would be no classes during the coming week and that I had placed a notice in the Educational Hall.
Karl and Carola discussed the possibility of trading spices. Carola explained that she imports spices from trusted suppliers in the Southern lands, grows many herbs in the rich soil near the marshes, and makes her soaps herself. Karl believed some of his clients in the northern lands and among the panthers might be interested in spices unavailable to them.
The conversation also returned briefly to the festival quest Carola and Aries had organized. Marcus praised it, though he admitted that he had accidentally discovered the eighth clue while searching for the fourth. I laughed because I had encountered the same difficulty.
While we sat together, I commented on the relaxing sound of water. Carola initially could not hear it and wondered whether I was mistaking the crackling fire for running water. Eventually, however, she heard a faint watery sound too. She reminded us that there are tunnels beneath Turmus and that Tasdron had warned her to stay out of them because they are dangerous. Perhaps water runs through some of those tunnels.
Marcus mentioned that a slave in his possession was willing to assist both Carola and me. Carola affectionately described Laela as a “High City slave” who might not be well suited to gathering ashes and packing them into barrels. Marcus nevertheless asked her to summon the girl if she found an appropriate task.
Carola’s headache eventually returned, and she excused herself to lie down.
Kael stopped by again before returning to his office. I offered him blackwine while he prepared for his trial work. He also gave me a copy of an Island of Tarns military-alliance proposal involving Turmus. I will need to read it carefully.
The peaceful quality of the day changed sharply during the afternoon.
I approached Lady Selia, Cassian, Cheryl, and Jean while Cassian was correcting the girls on the proper order of greetings. After waiting for a break, I greeted Lady Selia, Cassian, and the girls.
Lady Selia asked about my class, and I explained that yesterday’s class had gone well. I again mentioned that there would be no classes during the coming week because of medical matters. I also said how much I had enjoyed decorating my new home.
Without warning, Cassian began studying my hairstyle. He asked why I wore my hair in what he called the fashion of a “wanton slave begging to be used.” He referred to the knot in my hair, suggested that it conveyed sexual availability, and offered “pretty jewelry” for my neck.
I answered that braids are worn by free women.
Cassian rejected my answer and claimed that braids belonged only in the North. He said that Turmus was not a northern city and made a graphic threat involving bending me over the nearby bench. He asked whether my hairstyle was a silent plea and said that he could accommodate it.
I did not wish to argue with him.
Lady Selia advised that the question should be taken to one of the city’s Magistrates so it could be settled properly. That was a measured and sensible suggestion.
Cassian nevertheless stepped closer, invaded my personal space, called my hairstyle the knot of a “wanton slut,” and questioned whether I was truly High Caste. He declared that respectable High-Caste women should wear their hair up and often cover it completely. He ordered me never to wear that style or allow my hair down again and warned that there would be consequences if I disobeyed him.
He reached toward my hair without actually touching it and ordered me to leave and “fix” it.
The confrontation frightened me because it arose so suddenly from an otherwise ordinary conversation. It was not merely a scholarly disagreement about regional fashion. Cassian used sexual insults, moved threateningly close, implied enslavement, and claimed the authority to order my appearance and impose future consequences.
That evening, I told Kael what had happened. I explained that Cassian had essentially threatened to bend me over and collar me if he saw my hair that way again.
Kael became extremely angry. He believed that any such enslavement would be invalid and said that Cassian possessed no authority to issue that threat. Kael had already spoken to him forcefully and warned him against continuing.
I did not intend to upset Kael. I was shaken because of Cassian’s complete lack of respect and because I have grown tired of lower-caste people treating me poorly despite my standing as a High-Caste woman, Magistrate, and teacher.
Father had also spoken to Cassian and believed that I should report the incident.
Kael and I withdrew to my home in Olni so we could discuss the matter away from Turmus. Before the evening ended, we encountered Physician Huntsy Silverpath. Kael introduced himself as the Ambassador of Turmus and invited Huntsy to sit with us. The log ended before Kael could explain what he wished to ask.
The day began with a birthday, a possible renewal of courtship, and the warmth of a home taking shape. It ended with an unresolved threat that should not be ignored.
I do not object to honest correction or a respectful discussion of Gorean customs. I teach precisely because I believe such questions should be examined. However, scholarship does not require accepting public humiliation, sexual threats, invented authority, or intimidation.
The proper course is to preserve what was said, examine the applicable books and Turmus laws, and place the matter before the appropriate lawful authority.
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Incident Summary: Confrontation Concerning Lady Kati’s Hairstyle
Date: August 16, 2026
Time: Approximately 3:30–3:44 PM SLT
Location: Public seating area in Turmus
Principal Persons: Lady Kati Evans and Cassian Leoric
Summary:
- Cassian questioned Lady Kati’s hairstyle and described it as the fashion of a wanton slave.
- Lady Kati answered that braids are worn by free women.
- Cassian claimed that braids were limited to northern custom and improper in Turmus.
- Cassian made a graphic sexual threat involving the nearby bench and said he could accommodate what he characterized as Lady Kati’s “silent plea.”
- Lady Kati stated that she did not wish to argue.
- Lady Selia recommended consulting one of the city’s Magistrates.
- Cassian stepped closer to Lady Kati, invaded her personal space, called her hairstyle the knot of a “wanton slut,” and questioned her High-Caste standing.
- Cassian ordered her to wear her hair up, told her never to appear with it down again, and warned of consequences.
- Cassian reached toward her hair but did not make physical contact.
- Lady Kati later understood his comments about jewelry for her neck and future consequences as a threat of enslavement or collaring.
- Kael was informed afterward. He considered such an enslavement invalid and said he had warned Cassian.
- Lady Kati’s father also spoke to Cassian and advised her to report the incident.
- The matter remained unresolved at the end of the log.
Confirmed Witnesses:
- Lady Selia
- Cheryl
- Jean
- Kyrstal Wulfe — Arrived near the conclusion
Persons Informed Afterward:
- Kaellaed Rhode, Ambassador of Turmus
- Lady Kati’s father
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To Do
- Preserve the complete transcript of the confrontation with Cassian, including its date, time, location, and witnesses.
- Consult a Turmus Magistrate about Cassian’s conduct and decide whether to file a formal complaint.
- Ask Lady Selia, Cheryl, Jean, and Kyrstal whether they are willing to confirm what they witnessed.
- Review the Turmus laws concerning threats, intimidation, attempted enslavement, treatment of free women, caste standing, and authority within the city.
- Review the Gorean novels for reliable references concerning free women’s hair, braids, loose hair, veiling, regional customs, and whether hairstyle alone creates any lawful basis for enslavement.
- Record Kael’s and Father’s conversations with Cassian if either can provide the exact words exchanged.
- Follow up with Physician Huntsy to learn what Kael wished to discuss when he invited him to sit.
- Read the Island of Tarns military-alliance proposal for Turmus that Kael provided.
- Arrange the promised conversation with Ramius about Turmus imports, exports, granite, timber, and other trade goods.
- Confirm that the Educational Hall notice and calendars clearly show that no classes will be held during the medical-break week.
- Attend to real-life medical matters and allow time for rest and recovery.
- Continue writing future class lessons only if health and energy permit.
- Consider Kael’s proposal that we begin courting again.
- Explore holding a Turmus game night and determine which games are available near the landing.
- Continue the remaining work on the new house, particularly the curtains, lighting, bedroom furnishings, mirror, and bathing area.






























