Tuesday, August 18, 2026

A Question of Honor, a Disputed Braid, and the Search for Justice

Journal Entry — Tuesday, August 18, 2026

A Question of Honor, a Disputed Braid, and the Search for Justice

Locations: Olni, Olni Var, and Turmus.

The difficulties surrounding my encounter with Cassian Leoric followed me from the previous evening into this morning. What began as an argument over how I wore my hair has grown into a matter involving my reputation, my safety, the laws of Turmus, and the people determined to stand beside me.

Late Monday evening, Kael gave me an opening brief concerning the situation. When I joined him and Lady Huntsy in Olni, he told me he had been asked to speak with others about the incident the following day. Until then, I had thought I might have to face the matter alone, so learning that Kael would be present brought me considerable relief.

Lady Huntsy also told me she had delivered my report to Falconer. According to her, he wished to see me in person as soon as possible. I said I would try to speak with him in the morning if he was available, although I also had a physician’s appointment in real life that needed to be considered.

Kael believed Cassian should either acknowledge his behavior and apologize or face a public hearing. We agreed that 5 p.m. (SL time), which is 8 p.m. for me in Florida, would work for the planned meeting.

By then, I was exhausted. Kael escorted me home, gave me a reassuring hug, and offered to stand guard outside. I told him his support meant a great deal to me and that I would sleep better knowing he would be there.

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Early Tuesday morning, I returned to Turmus and spent some time working on my house. I experimented with a library ladder and its controls while continuing the decorating that has occupied so much of my attention lately.

Kael later gave me another document outlining what he believes were violations of Turmus law by Cassian. He explained that he wanted permission to represent or speak on my behalf if the matter proceeded to a civil hearing. His proposed concerns included disturbing the peace, disregarding the Ubara’s direction, and publicly insulting me in a way that could damage my standing as a scholar and teacher.

He had already sent his written argument to Kelli, Bactu, and Selia.

I admitted that he was far more prepared than I was and told him that knowing he would be present made me feel better. Whatever else may be uncertain, I cannot deny that he has been fiercely protective of me.

During our conversation, I reminded him that Father does not approve of men touching me unless they are courting me, and even then, only my hand. That subject returned later in a more public and rather unexpected way.

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I also had a long conversation with Carola. When I explained that a slaver had threatened to collar me because of my hairstyle, she looked up the relevant section of Turmus law:

“5.7 Free Women are not required to wear a veil, head covering or scarves. They are required to wear their hair up, or in braids, but not flat. Wearing the hair down and loose without acceptable reason (for example, bathing, strong winds or rain) may be considered an act of claiming the status of slave.”

I maintained that my hair was braided down to the tied portion and therefore complied with the provision allowing braids. Carola disagreed. She believed the loose portion over my shoulder prevented the style from qualifying as a proper braid and warned me that others in Turmus might see it the same way.

I told her I had worn the same hairstyle in old Fina many years ago without difficulty. She reminded me that customs and interpretations vary from city to city and advised me to err on the side of caution.

Her opinion did not settle the question, but it made clear that the appearance of the hairstyle itself would likely become part of any discussion before the magistrate.

Our conversation eventually turned to something more pleasant. Carola had recently traveled to Tashid to speak with Lady Mae about the possibility of a Merchant Fair. She described Tashid as a desert oasis and complained that the camel ride had been worse than traveling by sea. I agreed that inviting Lady Mae to visit here next time sounded like a much better arrangement.

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Later that morning, Izzy visited and complimented the walls in my house. He had seen the decorating the day before and thought everything looked very good. I told him the walls had taken all night to complete.

We also discussed the hairstyle at the center of the dispute. I showed him what I had been wearing and explained that both Cassian and another woman had questioned whether it was truly a braid.

Not long afterward, Kael appeared outside my home to stand guard. Aries also arrived after hearing what had happened and wanted to check on me. Looking down from above, I found myself surrounded by three concerned protectors: Kael, Aries, and Izzy.

I introduced them to one another, but the conversation quickly became intense.

Kael announced that he was guarding his intended. Izzy immediately objected that any such arrangement would be up to my father, Captain Wind, and suggested that Kael might have to satisfy Father’s expectations before anything could proceed. Kael clarified that I had not accepted any proposal and that he would need to speak with Captain Wind.

The discussion then returned to Cassian.

Izzy, identifying himself as a lieutenant of the Silver Blade mercenary company, declared that an insult against me was an insult against his captain and clan. He spoke angrily about retaliation and warned that the situation could become far more serious if Turmus did not address the matter.

Aries tried to calm the exchange and assured Izzy that both he and Kael were my friends. Kael argued that the matter should first be addressed through the city’s legal process, although his own anger was evident.

A message then arrived from High Magistrate Kelli requesting that we come speak with him. After a little confusion about his location, we made our way to the magistrate’s office.

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At the magistrate’s office, Kelli explained that Cassian was unavailable and that he had sent for the Ubara. Lady Selia soon arrived, and we gathered for what amounted to an initial interview rather than a completed trial.

Those present included High Magistrate Kelli, Ubara Selia, Kael, Aries, Izzy, and me.

Before I could fully explain the situation, Izzy demanded that the city take action and threatened consequences if it did not. Kelli firmly reminded him that any case would be handled according to the law and warned that anyone taking matters into their own hands could face consequences as well.

Kael encouraged Izzy to let justice follow its proper course.

When Kelli asked me to state my complaint, I explained that Cassian had threatened to collar me and had made unwanted, suggestive comments because he objected to my hairstyle. I also described how he moved close to me after I asked him not to argue.

Kelli requested Cassian’s exact words. Fortunately, I had kept a written record.

I read the remarks in which Cassian compared my appearance to that of a slave, suggested placing a collar around my neck, questioned my qualifications as a teacher, made sexually demeaning statements, and repeatedly used insulting language. I also explained that he continued confronting me after I said I did not wish to argue.

Although Cassian moved his hand near my hair, the written account stated that he did not actually touch me.

After hearing the account, Kelli asked whether I was wearing the same hairstyle and requested that I stand so he could examine it. I confirmed that it was the same style and explained that the law permits braids.

Kelli observed that northern and southern customs can differ. In his opinion, the hairstyle looked more like a ponytail tied with what he described as a slaver’s knot than a braid recognized locally. Kael disagreed and stated that he could see multiple woven sections.

The disagreement over my hair therefore remained unresolved, as did the broader question of whether Cassian’s behavior justified further legal proceedings. No verdict was reached, and no trial was completed during the conversation recorded here.

I eventually had to excuse myself because of my real-life medical appointment. The meeting ended, at least for me, with the matter still unsettled and the planned evening discussion with the Ubar and Ubara still ahead.

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Meeting Summaries

Evening Consultation Concerning Cassian

Date: Monday, August 17, 2026.

Location: Olni.

Attendees: Lady Kati Evans, Kaellaed Rhode, Lady Huntsy Silverpath, and Evalee Nightingale for part of the conversation.

Summary: Kael confirmed he had been asked to discuss the incident involving Cassian. Huntsy reported that she had given Kati’s account to Falconer, who requested an in-person conversation. Kael and Kati discussed a meeting scheduled for 5 p.m. (SL time) the following day. Kael offered his support and escorted Kati home.

Morning Legal Preparation

Date: Tuesday, August 18, 2026.

Attendees: Lady Kati Evans and Kaellaed Rhode.

Summary: Kael reviewed his written legal arguments concerning Cassian’s conduct and expressed his desire to speak on Kati’s behalf if proceedings were authorized. He stated that the documents had been sent to Kelli, Bactu, and Selia. The concerns he identified included public insults, possible damage to Kati’s reputation, and alleged disregard for the Ubara’s direction.

Discussion of Turmus Hair Regulations

Date: Tuesday, August 18, 2026.

Attendees: Lady Kati Evans and Carola Aromata Titus.

Summary: Carola quoted Section 5.7 of Turmus law concerning acceptable hairstyles for free women. Kati maintained that her hairstyle qualified as a braid, while Carola believed the loose portion made it unsuitable under local expectations. Carola also discussed her visit to Tashid and Lady Mae’s interest in a possible Merchant Fair.

Gathering Outside Kati’s Home

Date: Tuesday, August 18, 2026.

Attendees: Lady Kati Evans, Kaellaed Rhode, Aries Marchese, and Lieutenant Izzy of the Silver Blades.

Summary: Kael, Aries, and Izzy gathered after learning about the incident involving Cassian. Izzy emphasized his responsibility to Captain Wind’s daughter and warned against retaliation being ignored. Kael discussed pursuing the matter through formal proceedings and clarified that Kati had not accepted any proposed companionship. The group then received a request to meet with High Magistrate Kelli.

Preliminary Interview Before High Magistrate Kelli

Date: Tuesday, August 18, 2026.

Location: Magistrate’s office, Turmus.

Attendees: High Magistrate Kelli, Ubara Selia, Lady Kati Evans, Kaellaed Rhode, Aries Marchese, and Lieutenant Izzy, who departed before the discussion concluded.

Absent: Cassian Leoric.

Summary: Kelli reviewed the complaint concerning Cassian’s remarks and conduct toward Kati. Kati read preserved excerpts from the original encounter. The magistrate examined her hairstyle and questioned whether it qualified as an acceptable braid under local custom. Kael disagreed with Kelli’s interpretation. Kelli instructed those present to allow the city’s legal process to proceed and warned against independent retaliation. No final determination or completed trial was recorded.

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To-Do List

  • Meet with the Ubar and Ubara at 5 p.m. (SL time), or 8 p.m. Florida time, if the meeting remains scheduled.
  • Speak with Falconer in person about the report Lady Huntsy delivered.
  • Preserve the complete written record of Cassian’s statements and the surrounding conversation.
  • Review Kael’s opening brief and his document concerning possible violations of Turmus law.
  • Confirm whether High Magistrate Kelli intends to continue the inquiry or authorize a formal hearing.
  • Ask for a clear ruling on whether my hairstyle qualifies as a braid under Section 5.7.
  • Consider wearing my hair fully up or in an unmistakable braid until the local interpretation is clarified.
  • Coordinate with Kael, Aries, Captain Wind, and Izzy while discouraging threats or retaliation outside the city’s legal process.
  • Attend my real-life medical appointment.
  • Follow up with Carola about Lady Mae’s interest in a possible Merchant Fair.
  • Finish adjusting the library ladder and house furnishings when time allows.

Monday, August 17, 2026

A Quiet Day of Calendars, Class Schedules, and Preparations

 

Journal Entry — Monday, August 17, 2026

Locations: Olni, Olni Var, Turmus, and Summer Sun.

Much of my day was spent attending to the practical work behind my classes and discussion groups. During the early morning, I traveled between Olni and Olni Var, adjusting class notices, discussion signs, and calendar displays so upcoming lessons would be visible to anyone interested in attending.

Several boards updated successfully and displayed my upcoming classes, including lessons on the Administrator’s responsibilities, merchant weights and measures, paga tavern customs, the making of city law, merchant associations, travel papers, diplomatic relations, and river and sea merchants.

One calendar board, however, developed a problem when it could no longer locate its Google Calendar information. Other boards briefly displayed additional 2 p.m. classes alongside the usual noon and 4 p.m. sessions, so the schedule will need to be reviewed carefully to ensure the correct times are being shown.

Laela sent me a snapshot of Turmus during the morning, and later Falconer provided his weekly notice covering August 17 through August 23. I also shared several items while moving between Olni and Turmus.

The remainder of the day was quieter. Many familiar people were present or passed through the city, but there was little actual conversation recorded. Izzy briefly appeared with a playful “Booooooooooooooooo!” Shortly before evening, I visited Summer Sun and then returned to Turmus.

No formal class, court hearing, city meeting, or substantial role-play discussion appears in this record. The day was primarily devoted to organization, scheduling, and maintaining the displays that support my teaching.

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Upcoming Classes Shown on the Boards

  • Tuesday, August 25: The Administrator: Office, Authority, and Responsibility — noon and 4 p.m.
  • Thursday, August 27: Weights, Measures, and Merchant Scales — noon and 4 p.m.
  • Saturday, August 29: Inside a Paga Tavern: Service, Custom, and Danger — 11 a.m.
  • Tuesday, September 8: Making and Proclaiming Law in Gorean Cities — noon and 4 p.m.
  • Thursday, September 10: Merchant Castes, Houses, and Trade Associations — noon and 4 p.m.
  • Saturday, September 12: Travel Papers, Identification, and Entry into a City — 11 a.m.
  • Tuesday, September 15: Envoys, Ambassadors, and Relations Between Cities — noon and 4 p.m.
  • Thursday, September 17: River Merchants, Sea Merchants, and Their Ships — noon and 4 p.m.
  • Saturday, September 19: When a Slave May Speak — 11 a.m.

(Some displays also briefly showed 2 p.m. sessions for August 25 and August 27. Those additional times should be verified before being treated as confirmed.)

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Meeting Summary

Meetings or classes held: None recorded.

Attendees: Not applicable.

Other direct interactions: Laela sent a Turmus snapshot; Falconer shared his weekly notice; Izzy briefly spoke nearby.

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To-Do List

  • Check the calendar board reporting that its Google Calendar information is missing.
  • Confirm whether the unexpected 2 p.m. class listings should be removed.
  • Verify that all class and discussion boards display the correct calendar and update properly.
  • Review Falconer’s notice for August 17–23.
  • Review or save the Turmus snapshot received from Laela.
  • Prepare upcoming lessons beginning with the Administrator class on August 25. 

Saturday, August 15, 2026

A Birthday Visit and an Unwelcome Threat


 Journal Entry: August 16, 2026

Location: Turmus and Olni
Title: A Birthday Visit and an Unwelcome Threat

The morning began quietly at my new home in Turmus. I continued testing and arranging the furnishings, including the blue-glass lanterns, candles, mirror, bathtub, curtains, footstool, and bedroom furniture. Each adjustment makes the house feel a little more complete.

The lanterns near the entrance now cast a particularly pleasant glow. I also installed a doorbell, which soon received a proper test.

Shortly after eleven, Kael arrived and called, “Knock, knock.” He admired the house and remarked on its three levels. I told him how much I loved it and how pleased I was with the way everything had come together.

Kael then announced that it was his birthday. I had remembered and still had it marked on my calendar. I had been waiting an entire week for the opportunity to wish him a very happy sixty-sixth birthday.

During our conversation, Kael suggested that perhaps we should begin courting again. He said that it made sense because we had remained close through everything that had happened between us. I reminded him that he had not wanted to court when we were in Selnar, but he felt circumstances were different now and that resuming our courtship might be a good next step.

I told him that I would give it some thought. We have remained friends despite our difficulties, and we have shared many good times. As Kael observed, we generally manage to work matters out when he is reasonable.

Before leaving for his office, Kael looked at the banner and the dragon surrounding my seal. He called them amazing and told me that I was a talented crafter. He also said that the Educational Hall and my new home had made me important within the growing Turmus community. I could not help blushing a little. I have never thought of myself as particularly important. I merely try to build places where people can gather, learn, and feel welcome.

The doorbell amused both of us. Kael rang it several times while I watched the notification appear. At least I now know that visitors will be able to announce themselves.

Our conversation turned to the slave class we had attended yesterday. Kael believed that the instructor’s presentation might have been technically correct in places, but he questioned how applicable all of it was when interacting with real people in Second Life. I admitted that I was uncertain. In my experience, many slaves remain only a month or two before moving elsewhere, and too few are interested in developing an enduring story.

Kael said he dislikes manipulating people and would prefer that they make good choices willingly rather than requiring him to force every response. I agreed. Roleplay becomes far richer when each person actively contributes to the story.

I reminded him that I would not be holding classes during the coming week because of my real-life medical matters. I may continue writing lessons if I feel well enough. The prepared curriculum now extends into June of next year, which surprised him.

We also spoke about families and children. I told him that I had once imagined having a large family, but I still have not found the twins who disappeared after a nurse took them during the war, when I was gravely ill. Kael acknowledged that many people have left or changed characters over the years. Even so, that loss remains part of my story.

I asked whether he wanted children. Kael said that he would if I did, although we would also need time of our own as a couple.

We agreed that Turmus is becoming more active and increasingly feels like a community. Its regular gatherings and the willingness of people to interact have helped. Kael and I discussed the possibility of a game night. I enjoy Greedy and the card game Hand and Foot, which is somewhat like Canasta. Kael had played Greedy but not Hand and Foot. We thought there might already be suitable games near the landing.

I also told him that Ramius, the Head Merchant, had offered to sit down with me and explain the details of Turmus trade, including what the city imports and exports. Kael mentioned granite and timber as two important commodities.

At noon, Kael left to bathe, eat, and prepare for his office work and an upcoming trial. Before departing, he gave me a warm birthday hug.

Later, I joined Carola, Marcus Galbreus, and Karl Stevenson. Karl introduced himself as a merchant with interests in several lands. Carola asked how my classes were progressing and whether attendance was satisfactory. I was pleased to report that the Turmus classes have been drawing a good number of people. Attendance in Olni remains disappointing, but someone nearly always attends in Turmus.

I reminded everyone that there would be no classes during the coming week and that I had placed a notice in the Educational Hall.

Karl and Carola discussed the possibility of trading spices. Carola explained that she imports spices from trusted suppliers in the Southern lands, grows many herbs in the rich soil near the marshes, and makes her soaps herself. Karl believed some of his clients in the northern lands and among the panthers might be interested in spices unavailable to them.

The conversation also returned briefly to the festival quest Carola and Aries had organized. Marcus praised it, though he admitted that he had accidentally discovered the eighth clue while searching for the fourth. I laughed because I had encountered the same difficulty.

While we sat together, I commented on the relaxing sound of water. Carola initially could not hear it and wondered whether I was mistaking the crackling fire for running water. Eventually, however, she heard a faint watery sound too. She reminded us that there are tunnels beneath Turmus and that Tasdron had warned her to stay out of them because they are dangerous. Perhaps water runs through some of those tunnels.

Marcus mentioned that a slave in his possession was willing to assist both Carola and me. Carola affectionately described Laela as a “High City slave” who might not be well suited to gathering ashes and packing them into barrels. Marcus nevertheless asked her to summon the girl if she found an appropriate task.

Carola’s headache eventually returned, and she excused herself to lie down.

Kael stopped by again before returning to his office. I offered him blackwine while he prepared for his trial work. He also gave me a copy of an Island of Tarns military-alliance proposal involving Turmus. I will need to read it carefully.

The peaceful quality of the day changed sharply during the afternoon.

I approached Lady Selia, Cassian, Cheryl, and Jean while Cassian was correcting the girls on the proper order of greetings. After waiting for a break, I greeted Lady Selia, Cassian, and the girls.

Lady Selia asked about my class, and I explained that yesterday’s class had gone well. I again mentioned that there would be no classes during the coming week because of medical matters. I also said how much I had enjoyed decorating my new home.

Without warning, Cassian began studying my hairstyle. He asked why I wore my hair in what he called the fashion of a “wanton slave begging to be used.” He referred to the knot in my hair, suggested that it conveyed sexual availability, and offered “pretty jewelry” for my neck.

I answered that braids are worn by free women.

Cassian rejected my answer and claimed that braids belonged only in the North. He said that Turmus was not a northern city and made a graphic threat involving bending me over the nearby bench. He asked whether my hairstyle was a silent plea and said that he could accommodate it.

I did not wish to argue with him.

Lady Selia advised that the question should be taken to one of the city’s Magistrates so it could be settled properly. That was a measured and sensible suggestion.

Cassian nevertheless stepped closer, invaded my personal space, called my hairstyle the knot of a “wanton slut,” and questioned whether I was truly High Caste. He declared that respectable High-Caste women should wear their hair up and often cover it completely. He ordered me never to wear that style or allow my hair down again and warned that there would be consequences if I disobeyed him.

He reached toward my hair without actually touching it and ordered me to leave and “fix” it.

The confrontation frightened me because it arose so suddenly from an otherwise ordinary conversation. It was not merely a scholarly disagreement about regional fashion. Cassian used sexual insults, moved threateningly close, implied enslavement, and claimed the authority to order my appearance and impose future consequences.

That evening, I told Kael what had happened. I explained that Cassian had essentially threatened to bend me over and collar me if he saw my hair that way again.

Kael became extremely angry. He believed that any such enslavement would be invalid and said that Cassian possessed no authority to issue that threat. Kael had already spoken to him forcefully and warned him against continuing.

I did not intend to upset Kael. I was shaken because of Cassian’s complete lack of respect and because I have grown tired of lower-caste people treating me poorly despite my standing as a High-Caste woman, Magistrate, and teacher.

Father had also spoken to Cassian and believed that I should report the incident.

Kael and I withdrew to my home in Olni so we could discuss the matter away from Turmus. Before the evening ended, we encountered Physician Huntsy Silverpath. Kael introduced himself as the Ambassador of Turmus and invited Huntsy to sit with us. The log ended before Kael could explain what he wished to ask.

The day began with a birthday, a possible renewal of courtship, and the warmth of a home taking shape. It ended with an unresolved threat that should not be ignored.

I do not object to honest correction or a respectful discussion of Gorean customs. I teach precisely because I believe such questions should be examined. However, scholarship does not require accepting public humiliation, sexual threats, invented authority, or intimidation.

The proper course is to preserve what was said, examine the applicable books and Turmus laws, and place the matter before the appropriate lawful authority.



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Incident Summary: Confrontation Concerning Lady Kati’s Hairstyle

Date: August 16, 2026
Time: Approximately 3:30–3:44 PM SLT
Location: Public seating area in Turmus
Principal Persons: Lady Kati Evans and Cassian Leoric

Summary:

  • Cassian questioned Lady Kati’s hairstyle and described it as the fashion of a wanton slave.
  • Lady Kati answered that braids are worn by free women.
  • Cassian claimed that braids were limited to northern custom and improper in Turmus.
  • Cassian made a graphic sexual threat involving the nearby bench and said he could accommodate what he characterized as Lady Kati’s “silent plea.”
  • Lady Kati stated that she did not wish to argue.
  • Lady Selia recommended consulting one of the city’s Magistrates.
  • Cassian stepped closer to Lady Kati, invaded her personal space, called her hairstyle the knot of a “wanton slut,” and questioned her High-Caste standing.
  • Cassian ordered her to wear her hair up, told her never to appear with it down again, and warned of consequences.
  • Cassian reached toward her hair but did not make physical contact.
  • Lady Kati later understood his comments about jewelry for her neck and future consequences as a threat of enslavement or collaring.
  • Kael was informed afterward. He considered such an enslavement invalid and said he had warned Cassian.
  • Lady Kati’s father also spoke to Cassian and advised her to report the incident.
  • The matter remained unresolved at the end of the log.

Confirmed Witnesses:

  • Lady Selia
  • Cheryl
  • Jean
  • Kyrstal Wulfe — Arrived near the conclusion

Persons Informed Afterward:

  • Kaellaed Rhode, Ambassador of Turmus
  • Lady Kati’s father

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To Do

  • Preserve the complete transcript of the confrontation with Cassian, including its date, time, location, and witnesses.
  • Consult a Turmus Magistrate about Cassian’s conduct and decide whether to file a formal complaint.
  • Ask Lady Selia, Cheryl, Jean, and Kyrstal whether they are willing to confirm what they witnessed.
  • Review the Turmus laws concerning threats, intimidation, attempted enslavement, treatment of free women, caste standing, and authority within the city.
  • Review the Gorean novels for reliable references concerning free women’s hair, braids, loose hair, veiling, regional customs, and whether hairstyle alone creates any lawful basis for enslavement.
  • Record Kael’s and Father’s conversations with Cassian if either can provide the exact words exchanged.
  • Follow up with Physician Huntsy to learn what Kael wished to discuss when he invited him to sit.
  • Read the Island of Tarns military-alliance proposal for Turmus that Kael provided.
  • Arrange the promised conversation with Ramius about Turmus imports, exports, granite, timber, and other trade goods.
  • Confirm that the Educational Hall notice and calendars clearly show that no classes will be held during the medical-break week.
  • Attend to real-life medical matters and allow time for rest and recovery.
  • Continue writing future class lessons only if health and energy permit.
  • Consider Kael’s proposal that we begin courting again.
  • Explore holding a Turmus game night and determine which games are available near the landing.
  • Continue the remaining work on the new house, particularly the curtains, lighting, bedroom furnishings, mirror, and bathing area.

New House in Turmus

 






























Father and me

Friday, August 14, 2026

Bows, Slave Rules, and Tavern Music

 Journal Entry: August 15, 2026

Location: Turmus and Olni
Title: Bows, Slave Rules, and Tavern Music

This was a full day of teaching, learning, conversation, and music.

I began the morning in Turmus, preparing for the eleven o’clock class at the Educational Hall. Odette arrived early and asked whether she might attend. I assured her that the classes are open to anyone interested in learning. While we waited, I told her about my new home and invited her to visit. I explained that it is House Number 20, the blue house at the end of the walkway.

Odette asked which lesson had begun this series, and I checked before confirming that the first was the Introduction to Gor. She said that she enjoys the challenge involved in decorating, which I certainly understand after the many hours I have spent creating the walls and furnishing my home.

Aries arrived with Amalia shortly before the class, followed by Lady Selia. Selia joked that she had fallen through her seat and blamed the baby. I remarked that the little one was already making his or her presence known.

There was some confusion about whether I would offer another class later in the day. I explained that there is only one Saturday class because I wanted to attend the slave class scheduled for the afternoon.

At approximately eleven minutes after the hour, I began Bowing, Kneeling, and Other Gestures of Respect. The lesson continued our first World track on customs and social conduct.

I began by explaining that words are only one part of communication. Posture, distance, expression, the position of the hands, and the timing of a movement can reveal respect, uncertainty, fear, hostility, or deliberate insult before anything is spoken.

One of the most important principles was that there is no single measured bow that governs every person, caste, city, and occasion on Gor. The books contain bows, salutes, kneeling, obeisance, and other bodily signs, but they do not provide a universal chart of exact angles for every rank.

I also emphasized the difference between etiquette and law. A gesture may be courteous, rude, awkward, mocking, or insulting without automatically becoming a crime. Authority comes from office, law, command, property, or another recognized source—not simply from someone expecting personal deference.

The third central principle was that the courtesy of a free person must not be confused with the obedience of a slave. A free citizen may bow while retaining dignity and freedom. A slave’s kneeling may acknowledge bondage and obedience. Those meanings should not be carelessly exchanged.

We discussed the Gorean greeting Tal and its accompanying gesture of raising the right hand with the palm inward. Odette commented that she had been taught Tal might be too familiar for strangers. Thunder thought that showing the back of the hand could appear rude. I explained that part of the gesture’s meaning is to display an empty hand and show that one is not raising it to cause harm. Odette sensibly reminded us that Gorean customs need not carry precisely the same meanings as Earth customs.

The lesson then covered the inclination of the head, the formal bow, acknowledgment of an office rather than merely its holder, kneeling, prostration, caste, age, achievement, hospitality, relationship, and place.

I described several common errors: the empty bow, mocking bow, careless bow, unclear bow, dangerous bow, flatterer’s bow, and the assumed insult. Before making any gesture, a person should consider whom they are acknowledging, where the encounter is taking place, and what they intend their body to communicate.

Captain Tarl arrived near the conclusion and announced that, as a Warrior, he was always willing to learn more about his bow. The double meaning caused considerable laughter. To ensure that he did not miss the actual lesson material, I handed him a copy of my scroll.

The next World lesson will examine names, caste titles, civic offices, and forms of address. It will explain why a title should identify genuine status or authority rather than merely flatter an invented rank.

Following the class, I briefly visited Olni before returning to Turmus. Near the arena, I watched Augustus and Captain Tarl practice with steel. Their exchanges were quick and skillful, and those gathered in the gallery seemed to enjoy the display. Aries spoke of wishing to learn how to use the dagger he had carried during his pledging, and both men offered to help train him.

Aries also conducted an amusing survey among the slaves concerning their favorite and least favorite household chores. Some of the answers were more mischievous than informative. When I realized I was uncertain of the route back to my house, Aries kindly guided me through the city until I recognized the path.

Soon afterward, I encountered Kael. He asked how the earlier class had gone, and I told him that it had been all right. I then told him that I had news and invited him to walk with me.

I showed him my new home. He immediately called it a “primo house” and complimented the sign outside. I explained that I had obtained a very nice location and that I was working toward becoming a member of Turmus. It meant a great deal to me to show him what I had created.

Kael reminded me that the slave class would soon begin and offered to take me there because his office was nearby. We arrived early at the campfire, where Carola, Lady Selia, leena, and several others were already gathering.

The instructor, Akeshi Reardon, presented the second lecture in his Slaves in Gor series, titled Slave Rules. It was conducted partly in character and partly out of character so that slaves could ask questions.

The class examined customary expectations placed upon slaves, the legal condition of slavery, conduct before free people, obedience, punishment, restrictions imposed by owners, and the many names and classifications used for different slaves.

There was considerable discussion about whether an owner’s restrictions should be honored by other free people and what protection an owner is responsible for providing. Kael, Petra, rowena, Cassian, Carola, and others contributed questions or opinions. The discussion made clear that people do not interpret every passage or custom in precisely the same way.

Carola asked whether a free woman should correct a slave when the slave’s owner is present and permitting the conduct. The instructor advised her to approach the owner first. Carola admitted that she perhaps should have done that instead of immediately banning the girl from her shop, although she remained firm that an apology was required.

The instructor concluded by explaining many different terms and varieties of slaves. I found the material interesting, but I was not certain that I agreed with everything presented. I will need to compare several of the statements with my own notes and the books. Disagreement does not make a class worthless; sometimes it provides the best reason to return to the sources and examine a subject more carefully.

After class, Aries encouraged me to attend the Turmus Tavern Night. He said Nicholas hoped for a large gathering, and I agreed that it would be pleasant to listen to the music.

Before the event, Carola gave me a copy of the Class Levels material. I told her that I hoped people would read it. The entire purpose of creating these lessons is to give people something useful that they can study, discuss, and carry into their roleplay.

The tavern gathering began at approximately five o’clock. Nicholas welcomed everyone on behalf of Turmus, its leaders, and the tavern keeper. Jay Sparrowtree provided the streamed music and accepted requests. Special seating had been arranged outside for the free women, allowing us to enjoy the evening without being crowded inside the tavern.

There was a good gathering of citizens and visitors. Music drifted from the tavern while slaves danced in and around the sandpit. The songs ranged from the enjoyable to the extremely unusual. When a piece of metal yodeling began, I could only respond, “Oh my.” Jay promptly reminded everyone that he had warned us.

While we listened, Captain Tarl, Augustus, and Aries discussed establishing proper weapons instruction for free men. Captain Tarl said such training belonged in the arena, which seemed the sensible location. I listened with interest as they considered the idea of a scheduled class.

Aries offered Amalia’s service and asked whether I wanted anything. I requested a mead in a glass or mug. She returned with it, presented it properly, and remained kneeling until I dismissed her. Aries seemed pleased to demonstrate that she had been trained to wait for permission before leaving.

Later, the dispute between Carola and Amalia returned to everyone’s attention. Aries explained that he had punished Amalia for her earlier behavior and instructed her to apologize. Amalia prostrated herself before Carola and begged forgiveness for insulting her products and praising a competitor’s soap.

Carola acknowledged the apology but explained that the soap incident had been only the last in a series of rude behaviors. Eventually, she agreed that Amalia could enter the shop if she first knelt at the entrance and asked permission. She was not to distribute another merchant’s soap or advise Carola about what products she should carry. It was not a warm reconciliation, but it established a path forward and clear expectations.

Nicholas announced that there would be no regular tavern gathering the following Saturday. Instead, an out-of-character concert featuring Dazzler & the Marvels was being planned for August 22 at either four or five in the afternoon.

By the time the gathering began to wind down, I had taught one class, attended another, revisited my notes, shown Kael my new home, listened to weapons-training plans, enjoyed music, and witnessed the resolution of a dispute.

The day demonstrated precisely why education matters. Customs that appear simple—such as a bow, a slave’s posture, or the proper way to address an owner—can lead to lengthy discussions and sharply different interpretations. The important thing is to continue asking questions, return to the books, distinguish law from custom, and remain willing to learn.

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Class Summary: Bowing, Kneeling, and Other Gestures of Respect

Date: August 15, 2026
Time: 11:11 AM–11:55 AM SLT
Location: Turmus Educational Hall
Teacher: Lady Kati Evans
Level and Track: The World — Customs and Social Conduct

Purpose:

To examine how greetings, bows, kneeling, posture, and other bodily gestures communicate respect, status, obedience, hostility, or insult within Gorean society.

Summary:

  • There is no universal book-supported chart assigning precise bowing angles to every caste, office, or rank.
  • Etiquette and law are not the same. Rudeness does not automatically create a crime.
  • A free person’s courtesy must not be confused with a slave’s obedience.
  • Tal may be accompanied by raising the right hand with the palm inward.
  • An inclination of the head provides restrained acknowledgment.
  • A formal bow gives more visible respect but should not require a free person to imitate submission.
  • Civic gestures may honor an office and the law it represents rather than granting personal dominion to the officeholder.
  • Kneeling and prostration carry stronger meanings and should not be used carelessly by free people.
  • Caste, office, age, achievement, hospitality, relationship, and location all affect the proper gesture.
  • Students were taught to ask whom they were acknowledging, where they were standing, and what their bodies were intended to say.
  • The next World lesson will cover names, caste titles, civic offices, and forms of address.

Confirmed Attendance:

  • Lady Kati Evans — Teacher
  • Odette Atheria
  • Lady Selia
  • Aries Marchese
  • Amalia
  • ThunderBolt Kanto
  • Captain Tarl Daines — Late arrival
  • caile — Present near the conclusion

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Class Summary: Slaves in Gor — Lecture Two: Slave Rules

Date: August 15, 2026
Time: 2:01 PM–3:58 PM SLT
Location: Campfire, Turmus
Teacher: Akeshi Reardon
Hosts/Inviting Officials: Nicholas Eel and Lady Selia

Purpose:

To present customary expectations associated with Gorean slavery, discuss the relationship between an owner’s commands and wider social practices, and introduce the different terms and classifications used for slaves.

Summary:

  • The instructor described the material as general customs, codes, traditions, and roleplay guidance rather than a single universal list of laws.
  • Topics included obedience, appearance, service, sleeping arrangements, punishment, mistakes, disrespect, escape, assault, lying, privacy, naming free people, accepting punishment, seating, eating, and positioning near an owner.
  • A lengthy discussion concerned an owner’s restrictions, the availability or protection of a slave, compensation for harm, and the responsibilities of an owner.
  • Cassian offered a different interpretation regarding how a restricted slave might warn others and draw attention. The instructor disagreed with portions of that interpretation.
  • Carola asked whether she should correct a slave whose owner was present. The advice was to speak to the owner first.
  • Terms discussed included kajira, kajirus, Sa-fora, bond-maid, thrall, mul, white silk, red silk, tower slave, house slave, pleasure slave, bath girl, below-deck girl, deck-cage girl, coin girl, debt slave, display slave, exotic, passion slave, draft slave, poison slave, dancer, field slave, fighting slave, gambling-house slave, kettle slave, mat girl, and pot girl.
  • The next class in the series was announced for fourteen days later.
  • I considered the class valuable as a subject for further study, although I intend to verify several interpretations against my notes and the novels.

Confirmed Attendance and Participation:

  • Akeshi Reardon — Teacher
  • Lady Kati Evans
  • Lady Selia
  • Nicholas Eel
  • Kaellaed Rhode
  • Carola Aromata Titus
  • Aries Marchese
  • Cassian Leoric
  • Petra Poliatevska
  • ThunderBolt Kanto
  • Emily Steele
  • Laela
  • Amalia
  • rowena
  • leena
  • Jean
  • Cheryl
  • Nerine
  • Mel
  • Lucy
  • KT’s plaything
  • Ry’en Syr’Astreia

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Event Summary: Turmus Tavern Night

Date: August 15, 2026
Time: Approximately 5:00 PM–6:39 PM SLT
Location: Turmus Tavern and Outside Seating
Host: Nicholas Eel, on behalf of Turmus and the tavern keeper
Music: Jay Sparrowtree

Purpose:

To provide a regular social gathering for Turmus citizens, visitors, free people, and slaves, featuring streamed music, dancing, service, and conversation.

Summary:

  • Nicholas welcomed the gathering and encouraged guests to invite friends and request songs from Jay.
  • Special outside seating was provided for free women.
  • Several slaves served drinks and danced in and around the sandpit.
  • Conversations included possible weapons instruction for free men, the former Turmus fighting-slave kennel, medical apprentices, city security, and an attempted intrusion at the palace.
  • Amalia served me a mug of mead.
  • Amalia formally apologized to Carola for her earlier behavior involving soap and Carola’s shop.
  • Carola established conditions under which Amalia could again request entry into the shop.
  • The music included an unexpected metal-yodeling selection.
  • Nicholas announced that the regular tavern event would not be held on August 22. An out-of-character concert by Dazzler & the Marvels was planned instead, with the exact time still to be confirmed as either 4:00 or 5:00 PM SLT.

Confirmed Attendance and Participation:

  • Lady Kati Evans
  • Nicholas Eel
  • Jay Sparrowtree
  • Lady Selia
  • Aries Marchese
  • Amalia
  • Carola Aromata Titus
  • Captain Tarl Daines
  • caile
  • Emily Steele
  • Ella De Wren Bade
  • Augustus Bade
  • Thessallia
  • Cassian Leoric
  • Cross “Old Scar” Avro
  • Nebo
  • Abijam Fenrir
  • Aurora Darlagraysun
  • Owen Fenrir
  • Amalric Skytower
  • rowena
  • Laela
  • Nerine
  • Mel
  • Zoey Soburin
  • leena
  • Jean
  • Cheryl
  • Duncan Willis
  • Trygg Tyran
  • Petra Poliatevska
  • Flower